August 31, 2024
She Sat Beside Me
Location : Tagbilaran, Bohol, Philippines
Sexy and Beautiful
Seated at the Sandugo Festival enjoying live music and a coldie, I noticed this young, sexy and beautiful lady pass by my table after finishing her workout on the airstrip. She was wearing skintight outfit that revealed enough to satisfy the senses. 'Sexy and beautiful' do not happen very readily here in Tagbilaran, so of course, I noticed but didn't give a double take. A few minutes later, someone sat on the table next to me - it was her! If I didn't make a move, I knew I couldn't forgive myself in the many years to come.
Mustering Sinew for a Hello
As a general rule, I don't approach women in Tagbilaran. Tagbilaran is conservative and it's best to be introduced by a common friend. Besides, the women who get my attention are much younger than me - I didn't want to come across as a 'dirty old man'.
But when an attractive woman gets my attention and sits next to my table, I see it as divine intervention I should act upon. So, hurdling my reluctance and hesitation, I waited for the band to finish their song and said, "Hello". She smiled back politely and went back to her phone. I asked her a question and she gave a polite answer and went back to her phone. She was either just being polite or wanted the engagement but shy. Of course, I chose to believe the latter. There was no conversation - just a question from me and a quick polite reply from her before she went back to her phone.
Keeping in Touch
Sensing nothing was coming out of this, I told her it was nice talking to her but asked if we could keep in touch via Messenger. She said yes, and I wrote "Hi" to me from her phone. I left feeling satisfied that I had her contact info.
Blocked
The following day, I tried to reply but I couldn't. Apparently, she blocked me. I guess she wasn't open for interaction - she was just polite, and being in a conservative society, being polite was preferred to outright rejection.
Ending Thoughts
Getting blocked is getting rejected - no 2 ways about it. That stings. But I'm glad I still talked to her. If I didn't, I wouldn't be able to forgive myself for being such a chicken. Moreover, I will forever be haunted on "what could have been" - that is infinitely worse, and will stay with me for life.
I remember a moment from the Robert Redford movie, Indecent Proposal. As a young lad, he saw a beautiful woman inside the train he was on. He was mesmerized but couldn't muster the guts to talk to her. At one stop, she alighted but took a head turn and smiled at him before the door closed. For the next few months, he would board that train every day at that specific time hoping she would be there. He never saw her again, and he never forgave himself since (from the trailer below, I realize how my memory has changed).
--- Gigit (TheLoneRider)
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